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Bay Area  Multi-Cultural Transgender Page
hosted by Aunty Anita, Ambassador of Aloha

 

Links

www.tgsf.org    
Asian Pacific Islander Wellness Center
Bienestar  HIV Center for Hispanics
Transgender.org  
Transgender Law Center     
University of California SF GLBT Links  
San Francisco Gay and Lesbian Alliance  
San Francisco Transgender Team  
Community Health Partnership
deFrank Center
GLOBE in Alameda       
Trikone.org
JLM Photography 
The Glades Project
Law Foundation.org
 Reel Freedom   
  The Lighthouse Socal Transcom.org
  Diversity Center   Pro Latino.org
  Classic Curves International   Song That. Radio
  Hawaii Scene.com   Asian & Pacific Islander Health Forum



Community Events


The 4th Annual Trans March (June 22, 2007) is designed to bring together all
the fabulous diversity of the transgender and gender-variant community along
with our allies, in a celebration of our mutual support and our political
struggles.  Last year's March brought together 10,000 transgender people and
allies, featured a 3-hour performance stage with over 20 different
gender-variant musicians, political speakers and lives bands, and a march to
Civic Center. www.transmarch.org





June 09, 2007 Saturday 8:00PM
 Mt. Hamilton Grange Hall # 469 2840 Aborn Road San Jose, CA 95135
If any of you want to run as a contestant we can work out thesponsorship part! Hehehehe

This is a state wide event with many amazingly beautiful contestants from around the country! We'll be the beneficiaries next year, and this year all proceeds are going to the Neil Christie Living Center of the Health Trust...


CHARMAINES' BEEF STEW & RICE ON SUNDAY, JUNE 10, 2007

Hi Everyone...
I am selling tickets for Charmines Beef Stew & Rice Benefit... it is $10.00 in advance & $12.00 @ the door...
Contact me for more info...
Thanks...   Lacie Kenolio



HONOLULU RAINBOW FILM FESTIVAL
DATES:  Thursday- Friday, May 24 – 27, 2007
www.hglcf.org

HONOLULU - The 18th Annual 2007 Honolulu Rainbow Film Festival (fka Adam Baran Honolulu Gay & Lesbian Film Festival), presented by the Honolulu Gay & Lesbian Cultural Foundation (HGLCF a 501 c 3 non-profit organization), is rapidly approaching and we are delighted to announce that we will again be presenting exceptional films from around the world. HRFF will be presenting films beginning, Thursday - Sunday, May 24-27 at two extrardinary locations: Doris Duke Theater - Honolulu Academy of Arts and at the Cupola Theater – Honolulu Design Center.

The HGLCF fundraiser-Gala Benefit Reception will be held Saturday evening, May 26th beginning with laughs from the best comedians known  around the world with the screening of “LAUGHING MATTERS….the men” by Andrea Meyerson.  We will have all of our honorary guests from around the world and our special guest keynote speaker: Kim Coco Iwamoto, Esq.   This year HRFF presents a Hawaii & West Coast Premiere screening presentation of “ALEXIS ARQUETTE: She’s My Brother” and “OUT RUNNING; Stories from the Campaign Trail” by Victory Fund Organization and Hawaii's very own OH MARY! dramedy with cast and crew. Join us at our annual Gala Benefit Reception featuring excellent films, actors, filmmakers, music, drinks and cuisine of selections from Hawaii’s world famous restaurants.

The HGLCF is a non-profit 501 c-3 organization whose mission is to educate and raise awareness of the community at large about gay & lesbian culture, arts and lifestyle. HGLCF also works toward instilling a sense of pride and respect among the members of the Gay community, as well as to highlight the unique cosmopolitan ambiance of the city of Honolulu.

Honolulu Rainbow Film Festival Ticket information online at: www.hglcf.org

HONOLULU RAINBOW FILM FESTIVAL Sneak Peak Line-up 2007

OPENING NIGHT
Thursday, May 24    7:30pm



A BARBARA WALTERS REPORT: LIVING AS AND WITH A TRANSGENDER KID, ON ABC NEWS’ “20/20,” FRIDAY, APRIL 27

From the moment we are born, our gender identity is no secret
we are either boys or girls. As we grow up, most of us naturally fit into our gender roles. But for some children, it’s not so simple… they insist they were born into the wrong bodies. Barbara Walters reports on some of the youngest transgender kids, including a six-year-old girl who was born a boy, a 10-year-old boy who lives as a girl and a 16-year-old-boy who was born a girl. Walters talks to these transgender children, all diagnosed with gender identity disorder (GID), as well as to their parents, who are allowing their children to live in the gender they identify with in order to save them from a future of heartache and pain. They are sharing their personal stories to increase future understanding of transgender children. But how can someone so young really know his/her true gender identity? Walters’ eye-opening report airs on “20/20,” FRIDAY, APRIL 27 (10:00-11:00 p.m., ET), on the ABC Television Network.

JAZZ, 6 -- On the surface, Scott and Renee and their four children are a typical American family. But their youngest, Jazz, is a six-year-old transgender girl, one of the youngest documented cases of an early transition from male to female. At only 15 months, Jazz would unsnap his onesies to make it look like a dress, and at two he asked his mom when he would become a girl. He was only three when their pediatrician told them Jazz had a serious problem. When he was diagnosed with GID, the Jennings wanted to do everything possible to avoid having their child suffer. They let their then five-year-old biological boy begin living fulltime as a girl
Jazz grew her hair out, pierced her ears, and now wears dresses everywhere, even to kindergarten. ”We felt that it would be a good time for her to come out of the closet. Because she's starting a new school, doesn't know anybody in her class, and this is a perfect opportunity for her to switch the pronoun,” says Renee.

RILEY, 10 -- “She has a birth defect. And we call it that.... She talks about the day she'll have a baby. That's not in her future,” Stephanie says about her transgender child, Riley, who was born a twin boy named Richard. From the beginning, the twins were different
Richard wanted to be just like his twin sister, Allie. For years he secretly dressed up in her clothes. In 2004, at age seven, Richard’s parents allowed him to transition from a boy to a girl. He -- now she -- eventually changed her name legally to Riley. But living as a girl has brought on other problems, including taunting and teasing at school. Riley is now on the cusp of puberty, a difficult time for a transgender child who wants to identify with the opposite sex.

JEREMY, 16 -- On December 19, 2004, 14-year-old Rebecca wrote a startling letter to her parents. By the end, she was no longer “Rebecca” but “Jeremy.” After years of struggling silently, Jeremy, with his parent’s consent, began to transition into a boy. He cut his hair short, bought male clothing and began wearing a lycra vest that painfully flattened his breasts. Jeremy was generally accepted by his classmates, but beneath his clothing, Jeremy was a girl in puberty. “From the time that I found out what it meant to be transgendered, I knew that there were physical changes that I could make… and I also knew that there were surgeries that could be done,” Jeremy tells Walters.

But Jeremy’s parents were cautious. They allowed him to dress as a boy, but refused to let him start injecting testosterone. Without the male hormone, Jeremy felt trapped between genders. A year after coming out, he started to physically hurt himself when he discovered that his mother still hoped for her daughter to return. For his parents, the threat of losing their child crystallized the urgency Jeremy felt to masculinize his body and last year, Jeremy, then 16, began injecting testosterone.

The report also features interviews with sex and gender experts, including the therapist who confirmed Jazz’s diagnoses and the doctor who is treating Jeremy. Experts are divided about when to start hormone therapy treatment, which is not without risk, as well as the question of whether and when to have sex reassignment surgery; some fear that gender non-conforming children could change their minds about their gender identity later in life. Walters reports on the first study to quantify the harmful effects rejection has on gender non-conforming young people: Researchers found that youths who were highly pressured by their families to conform to gender expectations were nearly four times as likely to attempt suicide and use illegal drugs, and twice as likely to be at high risk for HIV infection. But for those accepted by their parents, these risks were dramatically reduced.

These parents also talk about the importance of the unconditional love they have for their children. “I've talked to many adult transgender people… And they said ‘if only my mother or father had done what you're doing, my life would have been completely different.’… The bottom line is you want a happy, healthy child to enjoy life,” says Renee. “This is not easy…it would be the last thing I would wish on anyone. But the first thing I'd say that people should stand up and recognize is your child's right to be who they are,” says Stephanie.

Why are these families exposing something so personal on national television? “I want to pave the way for a better life for her (Jazz), and any trans kids. They didn't ask to be born this way,” Renee tells Walters. “I want Riley to have a good life... and for more people to understand the way she is. And that it's no fault of her own, or anyone else's,” Riley’s father, Neal, tells Walters. His wife, Stephanie, adds: “We have to support her -- but we don't walk in her shoes. And people who look at her and know her... will, I hope, realize what it takes for her to be her every single day.”



"The California Dreamin Transgender Convention" includes presentations designed for BOTH MtFs and FtMs this year!
 
  If you don't know, this is the major TS event in Northern California each year and is open to, and appropriate for, all TG/TS folks and all providers who either serve these populations or want to serve them. check it out at.......http://www.california-dreamin.org/index.html
 
Namaste...Sat Nam...Om Shanti......Peace  B'Ahava v'Shalom, u'Vrachot
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Stephen L. Braveman, M.A., L.M.F.T., D.S.T.
Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist # MFC 28926
AASECT Certified Diplomate of Sex Therapy
AASECT Certified Supervisor and Certified CE Provider
Gender Specialist - Clinical Member of HBIGDA
Tantra Facilitator-Practitioner
AASECT Western Region Representative
CAMFT Past President - Monterey Chapter
Author:
-  "Innovative Methods of Treating Patients with Sexual Trauma"   in "Innovations in Clinical Practice: Focus on Sexual Health, 2007"- "CPR for Your Sex Life: How to Breathe Life Into a Dead, Dying or Dull Sex Life"   (Co-Author: Mildred Brown, Ph.D.)
 
494 Alvarado Street, Suite A
Monterey, CA 93940

Phone: (831) 375-7553
www.bravemantherapy.com    stephen@bravemantherapy.com





http://www.omhrc.gov/hivaidsobservances/index.html


A&PI Wellness Center's TOFU (Testing Options For U) Program is excitedto announce our participation in a pilot program with City Clinic to provide confidential STD testing (Gonorrhea, Chlamydia, and Syphilis) to men who have sex with men who may have been exposed since their last STD test.  We will provide free onsite treatment for Gonorrhea and Chlamydia and partner packs for partner-administered treatment - participants will be referred to City Clinic for Syphilis treatment.  As always, participants are encouraged to include a free rapid HIV test as part of their screening. 
 
<>Note: STD pilot program participants may only test confidentially forHIV.  If they choose to test anonymously for HIV, STD testing cannot be performed.   
 
<>As of March 14, 2007 STD testing will take place during regular testing hours.  For more information, please contact Anthony, Jason, or Ming
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Thank you for helping us spread the word!
 
Ming Ming Kwan, MSW
Health Education Program Coordinator
A&PI Wellness Center
730 Polk Street, 4th Floor
San Francisco, CA 94109
Tel: (415) 292-3400 ex: 347
Fax: (415) 292-3404
TTY: (415) 292-3401
www.apiwellness.org
 

HIV Care & Prevention 2007
"Changing Paradigms - Moving Forward"
A regional conference for physicians, nurse practitioners, prevention specialists, and other healthcare providers
 
DATE CHANGED!
Tues:  May 1, 2007
Double Tree Hotel, San Jose
 
Sponsored by San Jose AIDS Education & Training Center, a program of Community Health Partnership, and Santa Clara Valley Medical Center
 
 
 
Lydia Guel
Program Manager
Healthy Futures Program, San Jose AIDS Education & Training Center
programs of Community Health Partnership
100 N. Winchester, Ste. 250, Santa Clara, CA  95050
408.556.6605 x220
fax 408.556.6617
California's Transgender Leadership Conference
http://lisakassner.com/blankpage.htm.






The Diversity Center
offers a FTM (female-to-male) discussion and support group. Meetings will be held the 2nd Wednesday and 4th Thursday each month
7:30 - 9pm.  The group mets at The Diversity Center, 1117 Soquel Avenue, Santa Cruz.
 
This group is open to anyone who was labeled female at birth and no longer feels that is complete or accurate. Group members may identify as or be exploring identities including: FTM, transman, guy, man, male, transgender, transexual, genderqueer, intersexed, gender-questioning, crossdresser, male- to-male, transbutch, boi, drag king, bigender, genderless, trannyfag, etc. Wednesday meetings are open to FTMs, partners, friends and family members.(2nd wednesday) Oct 11, Nov. 8th and Dec 13  (holiday potluck)
Thursday meetings are open to FTMs as described above (4th thurday),  
 
Facilitator Antonia Broccoli, (a Social Worker and an Activist)  has been a proud members of the LGBTQI community for nearly thirty years. Antonia is committed to providing a compassionate, safe space for individuals on the FTM spectrum to receive support, network, and socialize with peers in an environment that is unique for female-to-male trans persons on all points of gender identity and emergence.
 
For more information call or email antonia@cruzio.com  (831) 425-4409.  While drop-ins are welcome,  please try to RSVP.
 
Teresa Antonia Broccoli, MSW, ASW
Associate Clinical Social Worker





                               
 

Aloha,

If you do not know your HIV status, and would like to, or simply haven't been tested in a while, why don't you call Life Foundation to set up a free anonoymous HIV anti-body test today?  If you would prefer, one of our HIV testers can meet you wherever you are on O'ahu. The test is free, anonymous, and absolutely confidential.

Please call 521-2437 and ask to speak to someone in Prevention to set up a test.  808-521-2437

Aloha!

COMMUNITY ALERT ABOUT A RECENT HATE CRIME
 
PLEASE POST WIDELY
 
An open letter to our communities from “Elliott” (a pseudonym), Kate Loewe (stopsexualviolence@riseup.net), Kathy Ni Keefe (nikeefe@riseup.net), Samuel Lurie (slurie@gmavt.net), and Eli Clare (eclare@gmavt.net):
 
We are writing to let our communities know about a recent hate crime that occurred in New Mexico. We are writing to break silence, to create resistance to violence and space for healing, and to build support for the survivor. We are writing in hopes that we can take care of each other, undercut the community-wide fear that comes with hate violence, and work toward justice.
 
Please note that what follows contains some graphic details, which could be triggering. Also, the survivor is a parent of two children, and this information MUST NOT reach them.
 
On September 2, 2006, Elliott, a cognitively disabled transman, was raped in a barbershop in Albuquerque, New Mexico. The attack started with the barber taunting Elliott, “You’re not a man.” He quickly assessed Elliott as disabled, asking, “Where’s your helper.” Throughout the rape, he called Elliott “freak,” “bitch,” and “retard,” holding a straight razor against Elliott’s throat, and when Elliott tried to run, threatening him with scissors at his eyes.
 
This brutal sexual assault intertwined transphobia and disability oppression (ableism). First, Elliott was targeted as a transman who is visibly gender variant. And then the perpetrator pegged Elliott as a disabled person, who, because of ableism, was seen as weak, vulnerable, and not believable if he ever tried to speak out. Throughout the attack, the rapist spewed transphobic and ableist hatred and acted with confidence that there would be no repercussions for his violence. This rape was not a random act but part of historic and current patterns of hate violence that target and terrorize both disabled people and trans people.
 
As we deal, both individually and in community, with the aftermath of this brutality, we urge you to take care of yourselves and each other. And again, we remind you that this information MUST NOT reach Elliott’s children.
 
We are writing this letter and distributing it widely to end our isolation, to challenge the secrecy and shame that survivors are often forced to live with, and to find community support. We are also writing to raise consciousness about ableist hate violence, which is virtually ignored outside the disability rights movement. In order to end the pervasive violence faced by disabled people—violence ranging from verbal harassment to being forced to live in nursing homes to attacks like the one Elliott just experienced—queer and other progressive activists need to add disability issues to our social justice work. We need to be aware of commonly used ableist language and how these words can quickly escalate to physical and sexual violence. One way you can support Elliot is by educating yourself about disability issues and doing anti-ableist activist work. (See resources below.)
 
There are many ways—big and small—to support Elliott and his family during this time. Please contact us at stopsexualviolence@riseup.net if you have questions or can help in any way. This email address will also get messages to Elliott.
 
Ways of supporting Elliott and his family:
 
For local people in New Mexico (many local people will know who Elliott is):
• Helping with Elliott’s children (childcare, reading, homework, hanging out)
• Providing meals
• Running errands
 
For everyone:
• Giving money specifically to support Elliott’s recovery (i.e. rest, acupuncture and therapy)
• Educating yourself and others about ableism and transphobia
• Volunteering with anti-violence programs
 
There are two ways to donate money to Elliott’s Survivor Fund:
 
1) Go to http://www.tgtrain.org/elliott.html and donate via the PayPal link you’ll find there.
 
2) Pay via check. Make it out to “R.U.1.2.? Queer Community Center” and send it to R.U.1.2.?/SafeSpace, P.O. Box 5883, Burlington, VT 05402. Please write “Elliott’s Survivor Fund” in the memo section of your check. R.U.1.2.? and its anti-violence project SafeSpace (http://www.safespacevt.org) will pass your donation to Elliott.
 
Elliott requests the following when people offer support:
• Respect Elliott’s process.
• Questions about the police, reporting, and prosecution are not helpful.
• It’s ok to ask Elliott how he’s doing.
• Be aware of how you offer support and what you say about the violence Elliott experienced when his children are present.
• Physical touch may not be helpful. Please ask first.
• Be yourself.
• Reach out. Check in. Elliott needs community support.
 
Let’s take care of each other and resist hate violence in all the ways we know how. Again you can contact us and send messages to Elliott via stopsexualviolence@riseup.net.
 
In grief, rage, and hope,
 
Elliott, Kate, Kathy, Samuel, and Eli
 
Resources about disability issues and ableist violence:
 
http://www.accessiblesociety.org/casindex.shtml
http://www.raggededgemagazine.com/
http://dawn.thot.net/violence_wwd.html
http://www.notdeadyet.org/docs/articles.html#viol
 
Resources about trans issues and transphobic violence:
http://www.transgenderlawcenter.org/
http://www.survivorproject.org/
http://www.tgijp.org/
http://www.srlp.org/
http://www.gender.org/remember/







contact us @ myspace.com/viva_tropicana

 





                                                              
Mimi Marks  the Miss International Queen 2005  recently crowned the current winner of the Miss International  Queen 2006  in Thailand. The winner is Erica Andrews of Mexico
                                
                                                                                       
                                                                                                                        Current Ms. TG San Francisco  2007 " Bonnie"


  
CURRENT ANDTHIRD MILLENNIUM FOUNDATION
SEEDS OF TOLERANCE

 
Make a Video, Make a Difference

Current is trying to change the way we see each other.

In partnership with the Third Millennium Foundation, Current is unveiling “Seeds of Tolerance,” an opportunity for aspiring young journalists and filmmakers to
produce short-form videos, or “pods,” on the issue of unlearning intolerance and understanding diversity.

Beginning June 15, our audience is encouraged to submit stories, thoughts, poems, and anecdotes on the concept of tolerance. The video pieces can relate to
racism, sexism, homophobia, economic or social class, disability, age or religion. We’re asking our audience: what does tolerance means to you?
 
$100,000 for the Producer
Out of all the entries, five semifinalists will air on the network, and the grand prize winner will earn $100,000 cash, along with an additional $15,000 to a relevant
charity of his or her choice.  Two finalists will walk away with $10,000 each.  All of the entries are eligible to be aired on the network.

 
Judges
Current has confirmed the following judges: Edward Norton, Margaret Cho, Melissa Etheridge and Paul Haggis to help select our best videos, and will help select
our semi-finalists along with a panel of Current and Third Millennium staff that reflects diversity in race, gender, ethnicity and sexual orientation. The final vote will
be cast by our viewers, who will select the grand prize winner and two finalists online at www.current.tv/tolerance.





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ALOHA.........Please join us anytime....
 
Join us at TRANSUNIDAS.........Our group caters to the Latina,
Asian, Afro American ,Pacific Islanders & 2 Spirit Native American Transgender Women . We are  TransPowerment Program with The Community Health Partnership ....We are the only Transgender Program in San Jose & in Santa Clara County
 
We welcome our straight allies & transwomen/transmen who looking for multi cultural support group!
The Aloha Spirit (Love) is alive and well in the South Bay......Please forward to our community
ALOHA.........Please join us anytime.... Our next meeting is on  Friday March. 16th
 
 
Together We're Making a Difference! We Meet every Third Friday of
Each Month From 6-8 PM
at 100 N.Winchester Blvd  Suite #250
Santa Clara, Ca 95050
 
Dinner is Provided
 
For More Info Call 408-556-6605 ask for Danielle Castro
Aunty Anita   510-449-8257



Seeking lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender people of color
 
Are you. . Lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender?. African American/Black, Native American/American Indian/Alaska Native, Asian/Asian American, Pacific Islander, Native Hawaiian, Middle Eastern, Latina/Latino/Hispanic, Biracial or Multiracial?  . Age 18 or older?  If this sounds like you, then we invite you to participate in a study focusing on your life experiences as an LGBT person of color, the challenges you have faced, and how you deal with these challenges. Participants will have the opportunity to enter a drawing for one of three cash prizes of $100. The goal of the Rainbow Project is to better understand and promote the well-being of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender adults.  Results of this study will be used to improve our survey questions, better understand the links between LGBT-specific experiences and health outcomes, and to develop culturally-sensitive programs to promote health among LGBT people. 


We are especially interested in hearing the diverse voices within our communities.  This is an anonymous, web-based study run through the Department of Psychology at the University of Washington. For more information, please go to http://depts.washington.edu/rainbow2/survey.html  or contact the Rainbow Project office at rainbow2@u.washington.edu or (206) 543-9862.  Please remember that we cannot guarantee the confidentiality of any information sent by email.
 
The RAINBOW PROJECT
Listening to LGBT voices
Documenting our diverse life experiences
 
The Rainbow Project is funded by the National Institute of Mental Health and the Society for the Psychological Study of Social Issues.
 
 


    


*** San Francisco***
 
Ease into 2006 with those friendly folks at the FTMs & Friends Wednesday night social, every Wednesday, from 6:30-8:30 pm.
 
We welcome friendly folk of all persuasions, trans-identified or otherwise...so come on down, and bring a friend.
 
Muddy Waters Coffee House
262 Church Street (btw 15th & Market), San Francisco
Look for the red balloon
!
 


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 Greetings Friends & Supporters of "Transfigurations"

  Happy holidays to everyone. As we ring in a New Year I want to thank all  of  you for your support and kind words during 2006!  Here's the latest update:
 "Transfigurations" will be opening at the I Gallery in Manhattan!   Jan 19 - March 31st, 2007.
  Artist Reception: Feb 2, 5-7 pm (cocktail fundraiser for gallery) & 7-9 pm  (public).
 WHERE: I Gallery, 39 West 14th Street - Suite 205
 
  On Saturday Feb 3, I'm giving an artist talk at NYU with participants from  my show, from 3-6 pm. More info on the IGallery website:
  http://www.igallerynyc.org/exhibitions/jana-marcus-transfigurations/
  Also watch for these upcoming national articles:  The Advocate (mid January)  Flaunt Magazine (February)
  Coming up: The HotHouse Gallery in Chicago: June 1 - July 14, 2007
  Best to you all,
  Jana Marcus Photography www.jlmphotography.com

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 © Jana Marcus 2006. All Rights Reserved.  From the documentary "Transfigurations.
For decades, the mahuwahine have been sex workers in Hawaii.

32 years ago, when I transitioned in Hawaii, there were no services or support organizations for the mahuwahine (male-to-females).  I came from an upper-middle class family of social standing and brought shame upon them.  So, at 21 I left and became a sex worker. More often than not, the sex industry was the only road available to trans girls back then. In the 1960s and early 70's it was against the law to cross-dress, so the "T" girls were forced to wear buttons that read "I am a boy," and were only allowed to work in a four block radius in downtown Honolulu. If you were caught without a button you were beaten by the cops and thrown in jail.  This is how it was‹no one cared about us.

At 25, after my surgery, I started presenting myself as a biological woman; no one knew about my past history. I had no marketable skills so I made money performing in burlesque, working around the country and overseas as a Vegas headliner. It was fun dressing-up every night and being glamorous I was a diva but I dreamed of a different life for myself. I wanted to be married and live as a straight woman, but I didn¹t know how to make that happen and I didn¹t believe I had any skills to pull myself out of the adult industry. I met a man, when I was stripping, who worshipped the ground I walked on. When he asked me to marry him I decided not to tell him I was trans. At the time I thought I was making the right decision, and I would take my secret to the grave. I carried that burden for 17 years.

Each stage of my life has been about lessons learned. This year I decided to come out to my husband and I¹m fortunate that he loves me unconditionally and supports the confidant woman I am today. I¹m in a stage of my life now where it isn¹t all about me anymore I want to help others. My new quest is to educate, as few working girls are strong enough to get past a life filled with substance abuse, beatings, and possibly contracting HIV. I was lucky I came out of it alive. My dreams have come true and I try to teach the girls that they don¹t have to be on the streets to use their brains and get an education. Those sisters who were beaten by the cops, had beer bottles thrown at them, and were murdered they paved the road that we walk on now. We can all have a better life today. With the spirit of my sister mahuwahines speaking through me, I am now here to help and I¹m not hiding anymore.  
Ha`a he`o I ka nani mahuwahine e` mahulani *

Aunty Anita, 52

*The beauty of pride is to share with you, brothers and sisters.

    

         



  Glade Reunion
          Hawaii June 2007        

For information and events please visit the  Newsletter
















Articles and Postings

                Sensitivity Training Power Point Presentation       My Two Mothers    Gone Fishing      Tropical Trannie


Scholarship Fund for Transgender Youth
Please forward to anyone or any lists you think may be interested. Thank you!
Greetings Friends,
As most of you know I’ve been working at Larkin Street Youth Services for the past 3 years.  Larkin Street is a non-profit agency in San Francisco that supports homeless youth in receiving the care, resources and attention required to generate stability in their life and overcome the factors propagating their cycles of homelessness, poverty and trauma.  It is a highly effective agency that conducts its life changing work through the financial assistance of generous, compassionate people like yourselves.   
I’ve been inspired to join the fundraising cause through the unique relationships I have forged with our youth, and witnessing first hand the difficulties they face in getting off the streets permanently.  I have bought some new running shoes and will be running more than I’ve ever run before.  I will be training for and racing in the San Francisco Half-Marathon in July and am seeking your sponsorship to ease the pain of running up some very steep hills, to continue the great work done by Larkin Street and to begin something exciting and new for our most vulnerable youth.   
Specifically, I am running to raise funds for the creation of a Scholarship Fund for Transgender Youth.  Transgender youth are a segment of our population who are most at risk for the worst conditions this society has to offer: survival sex work, drug abuse, homelessness, jail, infectious diseases, rape and murder.
According to Riki Wilchins, Executive Director of the Gender Public Advocacy Coalition (GenderPAC), “Gender non-conforming young people – who have often been shut out of employment, housing, and safe environments because of their gender identity or expression – are dying at a rate of about one every three months.”
During these past few years I have met many brave youth, especially transgender youth, who are struggling to overcome societal and institutionalized prejudice, internalized shame, abuse and addictions, to make a better world for themselves; one that does not place their life in danger on a daily basis and cause them to become just another statistic.
I know many of you give back to your communities in one form or another, but here’s a chance to be a part of something tangible and innovative. This is the first time I've asked friends for donations but it's for a highly worthy cause. So please join me in creating this Scholarship Fund that will provide support to a young person working hard to alter their life course; from one of pain and sadness to one of dignified self-realization and salubrious sustainability!
or you can send me a check made out to Larkin Street Youth Services with my name (Chandra Sivakumar) in the memo section, to : 720 Fell, #8, San Francisco , CA 94117
Many thanks!  Be well and and remember no amount is too little!    
Chandra Sivakumar
E:mail contact: chandras@larkinstre etyouth.org


Less than a week after Largo City Manager Steve Stanton announced he 
was transgendered, the small Florida community's city commission fired 
him. This is workplace discrimination, plain and simple. Click here to 
sign our 'Stand with Stanton' petition. 
 
When the Commission fired Stanton, they ignored his excellent 14-year 
record as an energetic and effective leader. Stanton has received 
consistently positive performance reviews from the City Council and 
the Mayor while managing over 1,200 employees and the city's 
$130-million budget. 
 
Stanton said, after being fired, "It's just real painful to know that 
seven days ago I was a good guy and now I have no integrity, I have no 
trust and most painful, I have no followers." Stanton needs our 
support. City officials have received hundreds of e-mails about the 
controversy, most calling for his removal. Together, we can raise our 
voices to counteract their voices of intolerance -- sign our 'Stand 
with Stanton' petition today. 
 
The promise of America is that if you are a good employee, you should 
be rewarded for it regardless of your race, creed, disability, gender 
or sexual orientation. But this basic American promise did NOT carry 
the day in Largo, Florida. Here are a few quotes from the hearing on 
Stanton's future: 
 
Ron Sanders, pastor of Lighthouse Baptist Church of Largo: "If Jesus 
was here tonight, I can guarantee you he'd want [Stanton] terminated. 
Make no mistake about it." 
 
Peggy Schaefer, citizen of Largo, FL: "I don't want that man in 
office. I don't think we should be paying him $150,000 a year...we 
don't believe in sex changes or lesbianism. They have their rights, 
but we do, too." 
 
Stanton's firing was an un-American display of workplace 
discrimination and this injustice should be reversed. Sign our 'Stand 
with Stanton' petition that we'll deliver to the City Commission in 
Largo, FL. 
 
Sincerely, 
Gilbert Herdt 
Director of the National Sexuality Resource Center



A Preview of the Trans Year to Come
By Jacob Anderson-Minshall
Published: January 4, 2007

Many of the notable trans folks I featured in 2006 are planning even more exciting work in 2007, and the upcoming year promises a plethora of cultural contributions in the fields of  music, art, film, publishing and theater. Be on the look out for:

Publishing
A new stack of memoirs, including Matt Kailey's follow-up to his 2005 Just Add Hormones: An Insider's Guide to the Transsexual Experience, Helen Boyd's sophomore release about her transgender spouse (She's Not the Man I Married), and trans politico KJ  Jackson Prince's I Want My Daddy Back (which, Prince says, "depicts the life of someone who is both male and female …[and] one little boy who refuses to let go of his daddy"). Lesbian author Cris Beam chronicles her experiences among LA's transgender teens in Transparent: Love Family, and Living the T with Transgender Teenagers.

A national study of transgender identity development by scholars Sue Rankin and Brett- Genny Beemyn will be released in book form (as The Lives of Transgender People) as will the results of TransAcademic.

com founder Eli Green's Community Needs Assessment Survey Project. In preparation for their 2008 book, Femmes of Power: Exploring Queer
Femininities, trans photographer Del LaGrace Volcano and writer Ulrika Dahl will be interviewing and photographing femmes around the globe.

Trans feminist Julia Serrano's essays will be assembled in Whipping Girl: A Transsexual Woman on Sexism and the Scapegoating of Femininity; trans veteran Janice Josephine Carney's essays and poems collected in Mantras from the Great Void; disabled trans author Eli Clare's poetry and prose will be released as The Marrow's Telling: Words in Motion.

T. Cooper's novel Lipshitz Six, or Two Angry Blondes, comes out in paperback and when s/he isn't touring Germany (where the book is an enormous hit) Cooper will participate in Michelle Tea's RADAR series, and join Kate Bornstein for an event at Harvard. (Cooper's girlfriend, Felicia Luna Lemus, also has a new novel coming—Like Son—with an FTM
protagonist.)

Trans academic Jacob Hale's latest article will argue that the Harry Benjamin Standards of Care's therapy requirement is ethically unjustified. Hale also hopes to complete his historical work on 1953 reactions to the Christine Jorgensen "phenomenon" by transvestites (including Virginia Prince) who "disavowed the desire to undergo bodily changes."

Films

Trans individuals continue to be both the subjects and filmmakers in documentaries about trans lives, and other trans and genderqueer auteurs explore broader issues and experiment with the medium. Trans filmmaker Jules Rosskam (TransParent) argues, "the narrative voice in many [transmen's coming out films] is a disempowered one." He explores this conclusion in his own autobiographical film tentatively titled Remember:  Repair: Retell.

Another transman Luke Woodward, follows up his docu-porn Enough Man with the "queer/ trans bicycle porn" Tour de Pants, while Female to Femme's lesbian director Kami Chisholm is producing Godspeed, based on Lynn Breedlove's novel.

Andy Twibell's new film Transcending Stereotypes profiles Midge Potts, a trans politician and former Navy sailor who garnered over 4,000 votes in a Republican primary election.  Meanwhile, trans Cuban American Mark Angelo is filming a documentary interviewing transkids, their parents, and medical professionals.

Australian trans producer Patricia Church's feature film about human trafficking, The Jammed, will be released in early 2007, and her mockumentary about terrorism and false arrest, Terry and Asim, will hit theaters later in the year.

Rosskam is in post-production on his film F. Scott Fitzgerald Slept Here, and is in collaboration with Sam Feder (director of Boy I Am), on a film that explores the exclusion of transwomen—especially lesbian-identified transwomen—from women-only and lesbian spaces.

On the small screen, trans performer Candis Cayne joins the cast of CBS's CSI—at least for one night—on Jan. 24..

Art, Theater and Performance

Exploring the intersections of race, gender and global warming using the metaphor of Antartica as "the white continent," trans photographer Del LaGrace Volcano's pictures will be incorporated into artist Mojisola Adebayo's performance piece Moj of the Antarctic: an
African Odyssey.The performance piece will premier in at U.K.'s Queer Up North festival in May, before touring the U.S., while Mark Angelo's one-man show, Transman on a Mission, will debut at Miami's upcoming winter party.

For June's National Queer Arts Festival in San Francisco, Julia Serrano will curate a spoken word event that feature an all-transwomen cast speaking about the difficulties associated with living as a woman with a "penis" in our culture.

Gunner Scott, the trans producer behind Boston's Gender Crash open mic, launches a monthly queer/trans dance night, The Neigh-borhood, that will feature live bands and guest DJs and a portion of proceeds will be donated to a queer/trans-friendly non-profit.

Music and Comedy

With a new CD, Won't Stop Now, under his belt in April, trans singer Joshua Klipp, will tour with trans hip-hop artist Katastrophe. Rocker Shawna Virago is producing her first album and the all transwomen band Lipstick Conspiracy will return to the studio sometime this year.

And this might be the year trans comic Ian Harvie's dreams come true—it looks like he'll  bring his comedy routine to an Olivia Cruise.

Activism

Once again, trans activists will continue improving the lives of the disenfranchised.

African American transman Imani Henry is facilitating the 2nd Annual New York City Trans and Gender Non-Conforming People of Color Job and Education Fair being held January 20. Filmmaker Luke Woodward will collaborate with other San Francisco activists to start a transitional housing program for trans parolees. Meanwhile, transgender cop and founder
of the online group TCOPS, Julie Marin, plans to incorporate the organization into a non- profit advocacy, resource, and support group.

Two FTM attorneys with National Center for Lesbian Rights, Shannon Minter and Jody Marksamer, will educate child welfare professionals about trans youth issues and reach out to parents with trans children, family court attorneys, and judges, to "keep kids from being exposing to damaging parental rejection and therapists who are trying to suppress their transgender identity."

And that's just a few of the fascinating plans for 2007. What's your story? Email me at
jake@trans-nation.org.

Trans writer Jacob Anderson's co-authored Blind Eye mystery series premiers March 2007 with Blind Curves.



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